The sex industry is renowned for having a secret language all of its own, a language that is known and understood only by the most experienced of clients and escorts.
Many newcomers to the escort industry find this “lingo” daunting, and sometimes frustrating. It can lead to misunderstanding, and possible conflict.
Having a full understanding of the services provided by an escort is very important for clients. A prospective client needs to know in advance what an escort’s boundaries may be. He wants to know if the lady he is looking at in a picture can fulfil the fantasies he desires, and provide the services that he craves.
Communication and understanding are paramount to having a memorable and intimate escort experience.

We have designed this glossary for anybody who has heard or read escort abbreviations and acronyms, and wondered what these terms actually meant. As some escorts may have experienced, there are terms for services they have come across that even they are not familiar with. With this explanation, we hope to help both clients and escorts.

Below is a very comprehensive list of services that a private escort may provide. Due to the comprehensive nature of this list, most ladies will provide some, but not all, of the services explained.


Anal play – refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis

Anal sex – penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek

ATM – ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration


Bi twin –  a double booking with two bisexual escorts

BJ –  blow job, oral sex

BBBJ – bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex to a man.

BBBJTC – bare back blow job to completion

BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is Rubenesque, voluptuous, curvy.

BLS – balls licking and sucking

B & D – bondage & discipline

BDSM – bondage domination sadomasochism

Bondage – sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner

Brazilian – a form of bikini wax that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. A “landing strip” is sometimes left at the front, others opt to have the hair completely removed

BS – body slide. An escort seductively slides her naked body over yours


CBT – cock and ball torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction of the male genitals

CD – cross dressing – a man who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex

CIM – cum in mouth – to ejaculate in the mouth

CIMWS – cum in mouth with swallow. to ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid

CBJ – covered blow job, protected oral sex with a condom

COB – cum on body. To ejaculate on a person’s body

COF – cum on face, To ejaculate on a person’s face

Cougar – a more mature woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man

Costumes and role play – The wearing of fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement. Such examples of fantasy costumes can be nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and mistress

Couples – A couple in a relationship. An escort that includes “couples” in her services list means she provides a bisexual service to a couple


DATY – stands for Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman

DATO – see rimming

DFK – deep French kissing, tongue kissing

Dinner companion – a social escort who accompanies you to dinner. May or may not provide sexual services

Dirty talk – the practice of using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy

DP – double penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex

DDP – double digit penetration. One finger in the vagina, and the other in the anus

DT – deep throat. The technique of taking the entire length of a man’s penis in one’s mouth and giving oral sex

Doggy style – a sexual position, where the man penetrates a woman from behind


Erotic sensual massage – a body rub that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver

Facial  – Ejaculating on a woman’s face

FE – female ejaculation during orgasm. Also referred to as squirting


Fetish – a need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement

Filming – the film or digital recording of a sexual act

Fire and ice – giving oral sex and switching between hot tea and cold ice cube

Fisting – the penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus

FK – French kissing, tongue kissing

Foot fetish – a pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes

French – oral sex, fellatio

FS – full service. Refers to an escort providing a full sex service


Gagging – a sexual act of gratification where the female gags or chokes on a man’s erect penis

GFE  – girlfriend experience. A very intimate service, where the escort is more like a girlfriend. May include such services as sex, french kissing and mutual oral sex. The details of each escort’s girlfriend experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.

Greek – anal sex

GS – golden shower. Involves watching an escort urinate, or one person passing water on another


Happy ending  – hand job after massage

HJ – hand job. Sexually stimulating the penis by hand


Italian – rubbing penis between the buttocks


LK – light kissing, usually with a closed mouth


MILF – mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive female, usually several years older than the person using the term

MFF – male female female. A threesome with one man and two women

MMF – male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman

Multiple positions – an escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions

Masturbation – sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy

Mutual masturbation – escort and client sexually arousing themselves, while they voyeuristically watch each other

Mutual French – Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time, is referred to as a 69

Mutual natural French – both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex

MSOG – multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times


Natural bush – unshaven or unwaxed pubic hair


OWO – oral without a condom

Overnight stays – an escort who stays overnight at a client’s hotel or residence


Photography – the photographing of a sexual act

PNDP – Please, no dick pics

Prostate massage – the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration, for sexual stimulation. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot

PSE – porn star experience. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film. Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. The details of each escort’s porn star experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.

Punter – the client or customer of an escort


Role play – assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement

Rimming – licking the anus


Sex toy – an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure. Includes such instruments as dildos, vibrators and strap ons.

Snowballing – the act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another

Spanish – rubbing the penis between an escorts breasts, sometimes until climax

Spanking – the act of slapping another person’s buttocks for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties

Spit roasting – A woman giving oral sex to one male whilst being penetrated from behind.

Squirting – a female ejaculating fluid from her vagina during orgasm

Strap on – A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner

Strip tease – an erotic dance, where the escort slowly undressed for her client  in a teasing fashion


Tea bagging – placing a man’s balls in the mouth of a partner

Toy show – A masturbation show, by use of sex toys including vibrators

Tromboning – an act where a female kneels behind her male partner and licks his anus while masturbating his erect penis

TTM – testicular tongue massage


Water sports – see golden shower

WL – working lady, escort